Monthly Archives: December 2016

Merry Christmas! Give me a gift, please

img_4134Merry Christmas!

I am grateful for every one of you who reads this blog and I hope you have a Merry Christmas!

“Glory to God in the highest heaven, and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests.” Luke 2:14

 

Will you consider giving me a gift? If you’ve read my book, will you leave a review for it on Amazon or Goodreads? If you already have, THANK YOU. I’ve been tickled and blessed by the reviews I’ve received so far. Reviews are how strangers decide whether or not a book is worth reading. If you liked my book, please tell the world!

 

 

Self Control is Not My Job

2timothy1_7For the Spirit God gave us gives us power—YES!—and love—YES!—and self-discipline—um, say what now?

Self-discipline or self-control is the Fruit of the Spirit I like to skim over. Love, joy, peace… I park it here and enjoy. Pour it on, Lord, these sound good. Forbearance (patience), kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness… I like these too, although it’ll take some work to exhibit them consistently. It’s not easy to always be kind and good and patient. I’ll need help, Lord. Self-control… I’m not a fan of this one. It sounds like work. It’s all on me: self-control, control of myself.

Or is it?

Wait, let me read those verses again. God has given us a Spirit of self-discipline. The Fruit of the Spirit is what the Holy Spirit produces in me. So it’s not all on me. I ask God to help me be patient and kind and loving, so why should self-control be any different?

fruit-of-spiritGod wants me to control my body. Self-discipline helps me say no to sin when I want to do what I know is wrong. Self-discipline helps me make time each day to pray and read the Bible when a thousand other ways to spend my time seem more urgent. And self-discipline helps me do what I need to do to get healthy.

Some days I’m focused on my goal and feel motivated to eat right, sleep long, and exercise. Other days I feel like doing anything else. Can’t I start tomorrow? Like a child I whine “do I have to? Can’t I start tomorrow?” I forget that I have the Holy Spirit dwelling inside me, ready to help me. So I pray.

I pray that the Holy Spirit, the same one God says gives us power and love, will help me be self-disciplined. I pray Lord, help me do what I need to do today to get healthy. Some days I pray Lord, help me want to do what I need to do today to get healthy, because I really want to jump off this wagon and bury my face in fudge.

Self-control is a beautiful thing, not a burden. I don’t want to be a slave to my flesh, so I need to take control of it so my flesh serves me and not vice versa. I have plans for my flesh and those plans include feeling comfortable in my own skin, feeling shameless in my tankini and swim shorts, and being mentally and physically active into my 90’s.

I’m not alone and it’s not all on me. The Holy Spirit gives me power, love, and self-discipline. Thank the Lord for all of the Fruits of the Spirit.

 

For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline. 2 Timothy 1:7 (NIV)

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. Galatians 5:22-23 (NIV)

 

Images courtesy of: Pinterest (fruit tree), Verseoftheday.com (rock wall)

Cuddle Up, it’s Chili

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I decided to post this chili recipe for two reasons. 1. Winter winds have finally hit Delaware in full force and my fingers are numb. 2. It’s what I’m making for dinner today and I can’t wait to eat it.

INGREDIENTS:

2 (14.5 oz) cans diced tomatoes, not drained

2 (14.5 oz) cans kidney beans, drained (or pinto beans, or a combination of beans)

 1 lb lean ground beef

1 lb ground Italian sausage (or substitute all beef or all turkey Italian sausage)

1 large onion

3 stalks celery

1 green bell pepper

1 red bell pepper

1 medium zucchini

3 cloves garlic

1 TBS Worcestershire sauce

1 TBS chili powder

1 TBS dried oregano

2 tsp ground cumin

1 tsp dried basil

1 tsp cayenne pepper

1 tsp paprika

1 tsp white sugar

1 tsp salt (Kosher or sea salt is best)

1 tsp black pepper (fresh ground is best)

DIRECTIONS:

Chop onion, celery, peppers, and zucchini. Mince the garlic.

Cook the ground beef, ground sausage, onion, celery, zucchini, and peppers over medium high heat until the meats are evenly browned.

Add the rest of the ingredients and stir well. Cover and simmer over medium low heat for 30 minutes. Serve.

YIELD:

8-10 cups

NOTES:

If you have the time, feel free to simmer longer or once the meats are brown and the veggies are tender, throw it all in a slow cooker for the afternoon.

The splurge of spices makes this chili spectacular and allows for alterations. For example, I’m out of bell peppers, but I have a bag of frozen chopped chard, so I’ll throw that in instead. Voila!

Soup: the Power Tool Collection

veggie-power-toolsSoup is the second word in the title of this blog because soup reminds us to drink plenty of water and to eat our vegetables. Vegetables are packed with vitamins, nutrients, and fiber which are the tools your body needs to function properly. Vegetable hammers help produce red blood cells, the vegetable saw cuts down cholesterol, the fiber shovel improves bowel function, and the vitamin drill and nutrient crowbar reduce your risk for heart disease, type two diabetes, and possibly your risk for cancer.

Sleep is a crew of workmen who spend the night building, cleaning, and repairing your body. Vegetables are the tools they use and water is their transportation. When the workmen don’t have the right tools, they improvise, but the result isn’t the same. You can build a house using only a crowbar, but we all prefer to live in a house built with a complete toolbox. Don’t live in an improvised body; give your workmen the tools and time they need and you’ll be amazed by their good work.

2014 March 006Vegetables are important for weight loss, but not because they magically melt fat or lock your mouth when a cookie comes near it. In fact, studies show that if you add vegetables to your diet, but make no other changes, you won’t lose weight. Veggies help you lose weight when you replace non-veggie food with veggie-food. The equation is not 3 burgers + 1 apple = weight loss, but 1 burger + 3 apples = weight loss. It’s this replacement of high calorie foods for low calorie plants that makes the scale move. Yes, technically you can lose weight by reducing your calorie intake and not include veggies—the Chocolate Cake Diet™, for example, lets you eat a slice of chocolate cake for breakfast, lunch, and dinner and nothing else—but it doesn’t help your overall health.

imageThere’s only so much space in your stomach toolbox. High calorie foods are a tape measure. You definitely need one: healthy high calorie foods have protein and good fats your body needs. But filling your toolbox with only tape measures doesn’t help you build a house you want to live in; it only helps you measure your house’s expansion. Ba-dum-bum-ching! Expanding waistline joke! Vegetables fill up a lot of space on your plate and in your stomach but contain very few calories so it’s like filling your toolbox with titanium tools that are strong but light. Many veggies are made up of 90% water, so they help hydrate you as well as fill you. Building your house body well is important because you and your body are in this for the long haul; till death do you part. Know what else we’ve done to death? This metaphor.

You might not like vegetables. When we were kids, my siblings and I tried to explain to our parents that they liked vegetables and we didn’t because their taste buds were old and dying. The truth is that your taste buds adjust to what they encounter regularly, be it spicy foods, salt, sweets, or vegetables. The more you eat vegetables, the more you crave vegetables. It’s like buying your first power drill. You get along okay with screw drivers and hammers, but once you get a feel for the power drill, you’re not going back to that battery-less wasteland. Vegetables are power tools and your body loves using them, so fill your toolbox with titanium tools, shed that unnecessary insulation, and build your house well.

 

Then God said, “I give you every seed-bearing plant on the face of the whole earth and every tree that has fruit with seed in it. They will be yours for food. Genesis 1:29 (NIV)

 

http://www.nydailynews.com/life-style/health/fruits-veggies-don-lead-weight-loss-study-article-1.1844944 Fruits and Veggies Don’t Lead to Weight Loss